Would it not be great, if your dream job  were delivered right to your door?
Unfortunately, it does not work like that.  But at least, you do have natural talents and abilities that your  creator instilled within you the day you were born. You were delivered  complete into this world, not incomplete.
They say the  individual is formed around five years old through part nature and part  nurture. This means that fifty percent of our development is out of our  hands, and predetermined - through the genes we inherit.
You  find out who you are and what your purpose is by putting one foot in  front of the other through the passage of time. If you listen to your  heart, the natural born steps to success we always knew we should take,  will be eventually be revealed to you. The moment we doubt ourselves, we  lose faith in our ability to bring forth positive change in our lives.
If  you have not found your true dream job, or do not know who you are yet,  there must be something holding you back...
If you are young, this  could be reason in itself. I, personally found myself much later in  life. Is something blocking your view of yourself and your potential?  Ask yourself this question - posing questions to yourself tends to help  clarify. The thing in your way may be emotional, or mental - but, it has  now become your responsibility to resolve. Through patience and  determination, one can sharpen the tools he already has, to get a handle  on his career situation.
Discovering your ideal career may not be  immediate, because it took you a while to drift away from your own sense  of you. It will not take forever to discover your best career choice.  This situation can be turned around and corrected.
You  can do this, because you are in charge of your own human potential...
Why  some have not found their true calling in life, through the right  career choice is...
It could be as simple as a submerged belief  that speaks to you and says - you do not deserve your dream job.
The  key to turning things around and discovering your dream career, is  having faith in your own ability to come up with your own answers to  solve your own life dilemmas.
If you are getting nowhere in life,  spinning your wheels, and do not already have the dream career you  want...
The question to ask yourself is - what is standing in my way,  or holding me back?
Who is it that will not let you get what it  is you want?
Is it someone?
Is it something?
What  could it be?
These are additional questions to ask  yourself.
You can blame yourself, blame the world, or  blame whoever - but, does that help?
Not really.
Blaming solves  nothing.
Blaming keeps you stuck right where you  are.
Action is a career finding tool. There can be no success  without action. There can be no attainment without action.
How  one silently speaks to himself, and the action steps he takes can lead  him closer to his ideal dream job.
There are reasons why we settle for what  we do in life, even though we would love something entirely different
One  reason - is because we may feel we do not deserve something better, or  we think we are not good enough, or we doubt our own abilities to change  our lives.
A few more reasons could be...
*  We get too lazy to change anything.
*  We get comfortable in our old habits and living patterns.
* We may not like change, because change  can bring unknown conditions.
One has to find his own motivation for  achieving positive change, and that motivator will help him discover  what it is he is passionate about doing for a living.
If  you let time keep passing you by, and still do not have what it is you  truly want out of life - the older you get, the less time you have left  to make your move toward finding, then being in your dream career.
It  is never too late to discover your ideal dream career, as long as you  are alive, but one can eventually run out of time.
Maybe  you have believed wrongfully, that you do not deserve a career you  could have the greatest passion for doing. Ask yourself, why would you  not deserve to have a career you would enjoy doing? Who said you did not  deserve the best career?
Why do some have their dream careers, and  not you - yours? Sometimes, life just does not seem fair.
People  preferably seem to judge themselves unfairly.
* You can change this,  if you step to the side of yourself.
*  You can change this if you examine, detect, isolate, replace, and  destroy your self limiting, defeatist opinions and beliefs.
* We can change our self conversation  habits and become like truly successful people, and tell ourselves good  things.
* We can basically learn to  talk nicer to ourselves. And if we want to experience any degree of  success at all, we will learn.
Success comes in three steps (maybe, a few  more) -
* Believe in you - believe you can find  your ideal dream job.
* Make a doable  plan, and a goal with a timeline to be in your dream career.
* Take action toward the goal, balance  thinking with taking action steps. You will get nowhere without action  steps.
* Correct your course along  the way by changing direction, or modifying your plan. Be more flexible  than you are rigid. If a bridge does not bend in the wind, it will  break. Be flexible, roll with the tide.
* That's it. Well, almost.
*  You learn along the way through trial and error - through your own life  experiences.
* Then, you adapt to  each new situation.
In conclusion, if you learn about you,  believe in you, and take a few personality and career tests, you can  eventually find your ideal dream career. These tests will usually give  you a readable print out of career choices that match your preferred  working personality.
That does not mean you will stay in that  particular career forever once you have found it, because peoples values  and interests change. People can change their minds daily, weekly, or  whenever the fancy strikes them.
And, the younger the person is, the more  likely they may change their mind about things. The older you get, the  less you want changes in your life, but tend to seek employment with  more meaning, purpose and mission.
Those who do not believe in themselves,  pick careers which reflect their own view of themselves - and the choice  is always a career mismatch. Career mismatches bring unhappiness at  work and at home.
Once you believe in you, your ideal dream  career then, may be close at hand.
Once you believe in you, anything becomes  possible.
* If you believe in your own resources, you  will find yourself and your truest dream career.
* If you think for yourself, you will come  to know yourself better, because you are open to your own self  improvement and self growth.
You will find yourself when you have  defined your purpose.
* Valid, researched career and personality  tests, are career tools that verify what you already know about your  working personality and career aptitude.
* You do not need a leader or a guru, or even advice. No one  but you has the answers to your own life and career destiny.
* Develop a plan of action with clearly  defined goals. You have to know where you want to go, in order to get  there.
* Your own plans will take you  to where you know you should be next.
* You will find your dream career when you are ready for it.  It is just like the saying that goes - when the student is ready, the  master will appear.